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TikToker's Complaint About Men Avoiding Bars Sparks Debate on X
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By the numbers: this timeline documents 3 events from Jun 18, 2026 to Jun 19, 2026, drawn from 1 source.
“Because we go out to the bars every weekend. Every weekend.”
via dailydot.com
Background
A TikTok video expressing frustration over men not going to bars to meet women has become a topic of discussion on X. The creator of the video questioned where men are meeting women if not in bars, noting that the only attractive men she sees are in places where she does not wish to be approached.
The TikToker stated a preference for meeting men in bars, suggesting it is the optimal environment for introductions. She also indicated that she would not want to be approached while sober in settings like grocery stores or run clubs.
The video reportedly included a friend's comment suggesting men feel 'not worthy' or that women are 'low value,' to which the TikToker responded that such attitudes would prevent them from finding partners. The video concluded with an appeal for men to return to bars.
The timeline
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TikTok video posted questioning men's absence from bars
A TikTok video was shared on X by user @alphafox, reportedly featuring a TikToker complaining that men are no longer going out to bars to meet women and expressing confusion about why.[303]
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Commenter suggests airports as ideal meeting places
User @PalominoOMG posted on X, reportedly sharing advice that airports were a good place to meet interesting men who were professionals traveling for work, contrasting them with 'drunk losers.'[303]
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Daily Dot reports on X debate
The Daily Dot published an article reportedly detailing the debate on X sparked by the TikToker's video, including various user comments and explanations for men avoiding bars.[303]
Frequently asked
What was the main complaint in the TikTok video?
The TikToker complained that men are no longer going out to bars to meet women, and she finds eligible men only in places where she doesn't want to be approached.
Where did the TikToker suggest is the best place to meet men?
The TikToker stated that bars are the best place to meet men, expressing a preference for introductions in that setting over places like grocery stores or run clubs.
What were some reasons given by commenters for men avoiding bars?
Commenters suggested reasons such as cheaper beer at grocery stores, the ability to play video games while drinking at home, and a preference for avoiding 'obnoxious drunk people.'
Were there alternative suggestions for meeting men?
Yes, one commenter suggested airports as a place to meet interesting, professional men who were traveling for work.
Could the identity of the TikToker be confirmed?
No, the identity of the TikToker and her original account could not be confirmed by the publication at the time the article was written.
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